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TANYA DETRIK





Chop Wood, Carry Water
Zen Proverb: “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.” Much has been written about the...
Jun 29, 20193 min read


On the Breeze
When I walk on the Naugatuck Valley River Trail, I prefer to walk alone— the steady rhythm of my feet hitting pavement becomes a kind of...
May 2, 20192 min read


Double Helix
It’s a new year and most everything is new for me with Wade’s sudden death on December 31st. One minute we were nursing the pain in his...
Jan 31, 20193 min read


A Sign of the Times?
In day-to-day life, I typically have a “live and let live” perspective. This post is about one thing that challenges me. Often that...
Jul 17, 20185 min read


Consider the "Other" in Mother
There are many different types of mothers
May 11, 20183 min read


The Power Vested In Me
This past weekend I officiated a wedding-vow renewal ceremony. It was my first. I only became certified two months ago to be able to...
Aug 28, 20172 min read


You Guest It?
It's summer vacation time. One type of vacation is traveling to visit relatives or friends. Sometimes visiting means staying in their...
Aug 3, 20173 min read


When the Shoe is on the Other Foot
How do you react when you encounter someone in a store or restaurant who has an obvious disability? Do you find yourself staring in...
May 18, 20173 min read


Seeing Red
Back a few years ago when I was looking to purchase a car, I was surprised to find that I was attracted to a red car. Red anything is not...
Apr 20, 20172 min read


Navel Gazing
I’ve had some interesting conversations in the past few days, though calling them conversations may be stretching it a bit. I am sharing...
Mar 21, 20172 min read


And the Answer is . . .
A few weeks ago, I spent another overnight stay at the children’s hospital with my daughter and granddaughter. Nora, age eight, had a...
Mar 6, 20172 min read


A Question of Honor
It’s hardly a surprise that I should feel strongly about the power of words and our care in choosing them. Words are the conduits of our...
Dec 15, 20162 min read


I Might Offend You
I work hard every day to find my own positive perspective. However, when it comes to politics, I am casting a vote against the people who, I
Oct 21, 20162 min read


About Face
My granddaughter Nora continues to catalyze new perspectives for me. One reason is that, except for a few vivid memories, I have very little
Jun 15, 20162 min read


Mirror Mirror On The Wall
In the room where I get dressed, there stands a full length mirror. At first glance, it looks like any other mirror, but it’s not. It’s actu
May 4, 20162 min read


Loosing Teeth
Today, I got an excited phone call from my almost-seven-year-old granddaughter Nora, who is the miracle subject of my book “Waking up with N
Apr 10, 20162 min read
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