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TANYA DETRIK
Jun 29, 20193 min read
Chop Wood, Carry Water
Zen Proverb: “Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.” Much has been written about the...
May 2, 20192 min read
On the Breeze
When I walk on the Naugatuck Valley River Trail, I prefer to walk alone— the steady rhythm of my feet hitting pavement becomes a kind of...
Jan 31, 20193 min read
Double Helix
It’s a new year and most everything is new for me with Wade’s sudden death on December 31st. One minute we were nursing the pain in his...
Jul 17, 20185 min read
A Sign of the Times?
In day-to-day life, I typically have a “live and let live” perspective. This post is about one thing that challenges me. Often that...
May 11, 20183 min read
Consider the "Other" in Mother
There are many different types of mothers
Aug 28, 20172 min read
The Power Vested In Me
This past weekend I officiated a wedding-vow renewal ceremony. It was my first. I only became certified two months ago to be able to...
Aug 3, 20173 min read
You Guest It?
It's summer vacation time. One type of vacation is traveling to visit relatives or friends. Sometimes visiting means staying in their...
May 18, 20173 min read
When the Shoe is on the Other Foot
How do you react when you encounter someone in a store or restaurant who has an obvious disability? Do you find yourself staring in...
Apr 20, 20172 min read
Seeing Red
Back a few years ago when I was looking to purchase a car, I was surprised to find that I was attracted to a red car. Red anything is not...
Mar 21, 20172 min read
Navel Gazing
I’ve had some interesting conversations in the past few days, though calling them conversations may be stretching it a bit. I am sharing...
Mar 6, 20172 min read
And the Answer is . . .
A few weeks ago, I spent another overnight stay at the children’s hospital with my daughter and granddaughter. Nora, age eight, had a...
Dec 15, 20162 min read
A Question of Honor
It’s hardly a surprise that I should feel strongly about the power of words and our care in choosing them. Words are the conduits of our...
Oct 21, 20162 min read
I Might Offend You
I work hard every day to find my own positive perspective. However, when it comes to politics, I am casting a vote against the people who, I
Jun 15, 20162 min read
About Face
My granddaughter Nora continues to catalyze new perspectives for me. One reason is that, except for a few vivid memories, I have very little
May 4, 20162 min read
Mirror Mirror On The Wall
In the room where I get dressed, there stands a full length mirror. At first glance, it looks like any other mirror, but it’s not. It’s actu
Apr 10, 20162 min read
Loosing Teeth
Today, I got an excited phone call from my almost-seven-year-old granddaughter Nora, who is the miracle subject of my book “Waking up with N
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